Book resources

Everything we referenced. And everything worth reading next.

The organizations, articles, voices, and books behind Dying for Friendship and Community. Use this as a companion guide or a starting point for your own exploration of the loneliness epidemic.

Organizations

Nonprofits doing the work.

The organizations actively addressing loneliness, social isolation, and community connection around the world.

WHO

Part of the United Nations since 1948, the World Health Organization has designated loneliness a global health threat and funds research into social connection worldwide.

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Aspen Institute

A 75-year-old nonprofit igniting human potential and building understanding. Home to the Weavers project, created by David Brooks, focused on community rebuilding.

aspeninstitute.org →

YMCA

Operating for over 175 years across 100+ countries, the Y supports health, wellness, and community — one of the largest community-connection networks in the world.

ymca.org →

Rotary International

A global network of over 1.2 million neighbors, friends, and leaders united under "Service above Self" — and increasingly active on loneliness as a community issue.

rotary.org →

GILC

The Global Initiative on Loneliness and Connection — a coalition addressing loneliness through awareness, research, and policy advocacy at the international level.

gilc.global →

Foundation for Social Connection

Washington, DC-based organization publishing a weekly newsletter on connection research and advocating for social health as a policy priority.

social-connection.org →

AARP

With over 35 million members, AARP's Connect2Affect program directly addresses loneliness and isolation among older adults across the United States.

aarp.org →

Catholic Charities USA

A charitable organization focused on multiple community services, including dedicated loneliness programs for seniors and isolated individuals.

catholiccharitiesusa.org →

American Institute for Boys and Men

A non-partisan think tank conducting research and designing policies to improve the wellbeing of boys and men, including tackling the male loneliness epidemic.

aibm.org →

Milken Institute for Health

Wide-ranging research covering many aspects of wellness, aging, and social connection, with a focus on the intersection of health policy and loneliness.

milkeninstitute.org →

The Together Project

Founded by former U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy to build connection and community in America for our health and wellbeing.

Marmalade Trust

UK-based loneliness charity for all ages. Mission: create a society where we recognize that loneliness exists and support each other to make new connections.

marmaladetrust.org →

US Chamber of Connection

Seattle-based nonprofit focused on all aspects of social connection, led by Aaron Hurst, dedicated to rebuilding the social fabric of American communities.

chamberofconnection.org →

American Red Cross

Among its many health missions, the Red Cross runs programs specifically addressing loneliness — particularly for seniors and isolated populations.

redcross.org →

Big Brothers Big Sisters

Creating mentorship and meaningful connection for young people, with a network that gives youth a supportive village and lasting relationships.

bbbs.org →

The Friendship Institute

Research-based organization helping people build richer, more meaningful friendships. Home to the Friendship Matters podcast, Connection Coach Certification, and Civility Index™.

friendshipinstitute.org →
Articles & Videos

Worth watching and reading.

Voices in the field

Researchers, authors, and thinkers.

The people whose work shaped our understanding of loneliness, friendship and what it means to belong.

Scott Galloway

NYU marketing professor and prolific podcaster on loneliness and young men.

Notes on Being a Man (2025)

profgalloway.com →

Jonathan Haidt

Social psychologist at NYU Stern. Argues smartphones and social media since 2010 caused the youth mental health epidemic; advocates keeping phones from children until 16+.

The Anxious Generation (2024)

jonathanhaidt.com →

Richard Reeve

Oxford and Warwick educated; founder of the American Institute for Boys and Men. Focuses on social mobility and the structural challenges facing boys and men.

Of Boys and Men

aibm.org →

Simon Sinek

Author, podcaster, and speaker known for unconventional views on leadership, business, and — increasingly — the friendship crisis facing modern men.

simonsinek.com →

Shasta Nelson

Leading friendship expert and author of three books on how relationships shape health, happiness, and work.

shastanelson.com →

Kasley Killam

Social scientist advocating for "social health" as a recognized dimension of public health, alongside physical and mental health.

The Art and Science of Connection

kasleykillam.com →

Julianne Holt-Lunstad

Professor of psychology and neuroscience at Brigham Young University. Her research found that lacking social connection carries a health risk comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

julianneholtlunstad.com →

Jamil Zaki

Stanford psychology professor and director of the Stanford Social Neuroscience Lab. Researches empathy, connection, and why kindness is harder than it should be.

Hope for Cynics & The War for Kindness

jamil-zaki.com →

Arthur Brooks

Professor at Harvard Kennedy School and Harvard Business School. 13-book author on happiness, meaning, and the social conditions that sustain them.

The Happiness Files (2025)

arthurbrooks.com →

Chip Conley

Co-founder of Modern Elder Academy. Author and lecturer on making midlife and later life meaningful — and the social connections that make it possible.

Learning to Love Mid-Life (2024)

chipconley.com →

Ken Stern

Founder and Chair of the Longevity Project, which fosters public conversation and research on the impact of longer lives on civil society.

Healthy to 100: How Strong Social Ties Lead To Long Lives

longevity-project.com →

Aaron Hurst

Founder and CEO of the US Chamber of Connection, dedicated to rebuilding the social fabric of American communities through civic infrastructure.

chamberofconnection.org →
Reading list

Books worth your time.

Contemporary titles and foundational texts on loneliness, friendship, and human connection.

Contemporary

Historical texts

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